Comments on: Do You Agree With Doing Anything For Love?

By: ?Munchki

?Munchki — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 16:20:46 +0000

no, b/cyou hurt the people you love…..so yeah, think about that.

By: 8 In the corner

8 In the corner — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 15:26:18 +0000

Yes, but I won’t do that!

By: DrEvol

DrEvol — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 14:32:21 +0000

Let’s define DO
and
Let’s define LOVE
When you do something you decide first. Then, according to that decision, you act. If you DO NOT decide, you have decided not to think and you act accordingly. To do anything right we must know how to differentiate between right and wrong, between just and unjust, good and evil, real and unreal. We have only one tool at our disposal to do this: our critical faculty, i.e. our ability to reason.
To be moral we must know the difference between good and evil. Good is everything that helps one to live and helps one to improve one’s life. Evil is everything that is irrational and therefore does not help living, or improving anyone’s life.
We all have different values. Some are rational, some are irrational. The one rational value that determines all the others and that is above all the others is life. You cannot reason with someone who does not value his or your life! The quality of life is the sum total of all the other values. If one is sick and is terminally ill, his value for life may diminish. If one suffers tremendously with no hope of recovering, he may even rationally wish to end his life, since life is the source of pain and nothing else, and as such, life has lost all its value.
Now let’s turn to LOVE.
To love is a transitive verb. This means that there is always an object after love. Love without object makes no sense. Love means value, giving value. I love only what I value. Life is something we all value, so we love life. If I am taught as a child to love God, I value the idea of what I was told God is: peace, pleasure, undertsanding, comfort, affection, compassion, happiness, bliss, etc. Notice that in speaking of God we have to substitute the word God (an idea) with a bunch of other ABSTRACT words without a real concrete object to love. But here on earth, when we say we love something or somebody we mean a REAL thing or person. If we value a beautiful car, we can say we love it; if we value and admire someone, we can say we love that person. We feel happy and excited with someone, if it’s mutual, we spend our life together in love. When we love someone and we must make a difficult decision, it is important to review what we mean by DOING and what we mean by LOVE.
Our actions depend on our decisions and our decisions depend on our reasoning and our concepts of what we think is moral. In some circumstances it is moral to kill someone, if we must defend our life. In some circumstances it is moral to help a person die, if that is what the person wishes. To go against the law, even if the law is immoral, is a personal decision one has to make by considering everything, including if one is willing to pay the unpleasant consequences of one’s action.

By: oompa loompa

oompa loompa — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 13:55:05 +0000

yes. but sometimes doing anything for love means hurting them too…..i wouldnt bring them drugs in jail because that would hurt them now but help them in the long run….

By: flutterb

flutterb — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 13:34:23 +0000

I don’t really agree with it, but, I’d do it anyways.
“The devil made me do it and I’ll do it again.”

By: dizzkat

dizzkat — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 12:54:04 +0000

Do not bring drugs to the prisoner! That is not love, it is co-dependence and enabling. And while I do what I can to support and nurture the people I love, I avoid the actions they may want from me that I think will cause harm.
Yes, I believe I could kill if my children were in acute danger.

By: nolajazz

nolajazz — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 12:52:35 +0000

No, I don’t agree with “doing anything for love.” Unless wisdom is used, there can be problems encountered.

By: Adham 1910

Adham 1910 — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 12:24:21 +0000

yes i will do everything for love even if i will hurt myself
i can secrify by anything for my loved people

By: ZORRO

ZORRO — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:33:07 +0000

There is really no such emotion as love. In prison they get all the help they need if they want the program.

By: God_Live

God_Live — Sat, 19 Dec 2009 11:31:25 +0000

My understanding is that since love is mostly an emotion, “doing something for love” would just happen whether you want it to or not. If you love someone and are in a position to protect him or her from danger, what you do isn’t always so rationally realized. A lot of it is instinct. It’s not really a fair question.